Frequently Asked Questions
Have a question? Don’t hesitate to contact us, but you may find the answer to your question below. Many of these issues are discussed in more depth in Foundations of Our Faith and Calling, the public account of our faith which describes the tenets and orders common to all our communities.
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Yes. We have visitors on our communities every day. Some people come for a couple hours, some stay with us for several weeks or months – the door is open. The best way to understand our communities is to experience them first-hand. You can find the Bruderhof nearest to you here and arrange a visit here.
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“Bruderhof” is a German word that translates roughly as “place of the brothers.” The name was first used for Anabaptist communities in the sixteenth century.
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Jesus said that where two or three are gathered in his name he is there with us. He also said that we should love our neighbor as ourselves. That’s a direct call to community. The first church as described in Acts 2:42–47, “were together and had all things in common.” We believe Jesus continues to call people to gather together in this way.
We hope that our communities can help people to have a vision of what society can be like: a place where each child and older person is loved and taken care of, a place where we work against loneliness and poverty, where marriages stay together, where there isn’t violence, and where people willingly give up all their possessions for a cause that is greater than themselves. Read more about why we live in community at the Bruderhof.
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Community of goods, also known as the common purse, simply means we share everything together. None of us owns any property in our name, and none of us receives a paycheck, stipend, or allowance. Everything belongs to the collective membership.
When someone becomes a member, all their earnings and inheritances are given to the church, and each receives necessities such as food, clothing, and housing. Each of us is accountable to the church community for money we spend. No one member, or any one Bruderhof location, is richer or poorer than any other. This idea is not ours; this is how the first Christians lived, as described in Acts 2.
Our businesses are sufficient to maintain our communities and provide for our modest daily needs. When we are blessed with more than we need, we use it for our own outreach projects or to support other charitable missions.
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Our members work in manufacturing businesses that provide our livelihood with departments spread among several settlements. Community Playthings, based in the US and UK, designs and manufactures quality wooden classroom and play environments for schools and daycare centers. Rifton Equipment designs and manufactures adaptive equipment for children and adults with disabilities. Danthonia Designs, based in Australia, supplies custom dimensional signage. Some communities have other smaller businesses, for instance the market garden at the Gutshof Bruderhof in Austria.
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Yes. We work with local churches, homeless shelters, food pantries, nursing homes, fire departments, and social services to try to help meet the needs of the people who live right around us. In addition to material support it’s important to us to spend time with our neighbors, especially those who may be lonely or going through difficulties. Members also visit local prisons and jails.
We also support community organizations like the YMCA and Boys and Girls Club and local art and music venues, either as volunteers or by assisting in their fundraising efforts. Read more here.
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Our dress is meant to be modest and respectful. We want to avoid clothing that indicates status or wealth as well as anything provocative or sexualized, because Jesus commands us to be pure in heart, soul, and body. We try to represent that in our dress.
By having a simple mode of dress we also try to uphold Jesus’ teachings about not worrying about what you’re going to wear.
We also want to respect the differences between men and women as God made us. So the women’s clothing includes a skirt and some also choose to wear a head covering. The men’s clothing may not stand out as much as the women’s but it’s also simple.
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Yes. Everyone has a different way of looking at the world, and our gifts and shortcomings are all different as well. Bruderhof members are a fairly normal mix of the disorganized and the efficient, the naturally cheerful and those inclined to gloom, the garrulous and the tight-lipped, high energy people and those of us who value tranquility. Some people write poems and jog five miles a day, some enjoy crafting and bird-watching, and others brew beer. We have artists, doctors, musicians, engineers, and web designers among us. Read more about the people of the Bruderhof here or read about some Bruderhof members.
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Anyone who is willing to give up everything to follow Jesus is warmly welcome to seek with us. Jesus called his disciples to leave everything to follow him, and we believe that we can only truly start being disciples by doing the same.
Membership in the Bruderhof is a lifetime commitment, so it must be clear to you and to us that God is calling you to this way of life. We don’t try to recruit members, since we don’t believe that you have to be a Bruderhof member to serve God. We do believe that Christ calls everyone to a life of sharing and community.
Some members have PhDs and others need help with daily living, some come from broken homes and others from a background of privilege, some come as married couples with children, and some come on their own. Before taking membership vows you do have to be at least twenty-one years old and have received believer’s baptism. For more detailed information on the path to membership in the Bruderhof, visit this page.
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We are Protestant in the sense that we’re not Catholic, and we stem from the Anabaptist tradition. That said, we don’t identify with any major denomination - you could say we’re interdenominational because people from all religious backgrounds have come to join us, or you could say we’re nondenominational.
We don’t believe in any special revelation unique to us; our faith is grounded in the Bible, and we confess to all the points of Christian faith contained in the Apostolic and Nicene creeds.
In his gospel, John writes about the church having even preceded creation (John 1:1). That is the church that we want to be part of, and that is the church which we want to share with all true believers. Jesus did not come to establish a human institution; he came to tell us to love our neighbor as ourselves. Foundations of Our Faith & Calling is a text that describes the tenets and orders common to all Bruderhof communities.
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At the time of the Reformation in the sixteenth century, the Anabaptists sought to find a full biblical resolution to the changes that were being made in the church. Anabaptists believe that in order to receive baptism, a person must have come to a personal faith, i.e. they do not believe that infant baptisms are valid. They believe that to be a Christian you have to both have faith and live a life of discipleship. Anabaptists believe that because the church is an eternal work of God, it cannot be identified with any state-sponsored institution. As a consequence of this attitude of separateness from temporal authority, Anabaptists do not serve in government office or in the police force or armed forces of any nation. Read more about Anabaptism here.
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Yes, many of our young people pursue some form of training at the university level or in a trade, and others find opportunities to volunteer or learn practical skills in the workplace.
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We love our role as mothers, nurturers, and homemakers, and also love our roles as teachers, doctors, sales managers, lawyers, laundresses, and architects.
We value and honor the partnership and teamwork which exists between God-fearing men and women – whether married to each other or simply co-workers – because we have found that we bring out the best in each other.
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Jesus instructs his disciples to be peacemakers, to love their enemies. This way of peace demands reverence for all human life, since every person is made in the image of God. Because of this, we oppose the taking of human life for any reason, directly or indirectly, whether in war or self-defense, through the death penalty, or by any other means, including euthanasia or abortion. As conscientious objectors, we do not serve in the armed services of any country, not even as noncombatants, nor do we support war-making or the use of deadly force by others through our consent or aid. Read more about the way of peace here. Also read A Life That Answers War.
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No. Membership in the Bruderhof is not a birthright. Regardless of where someone was born, anyone who becomes a member must experience a calling from God.
Many people who grow up on the Bruderhof choose a different way of life. We try to raise each young person to have a sense of purpose and a desire to be of service to others, and young people may be called to a different vocation than ours, for instance to service in a third world country or an urban mission.
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We are religious in the sense that our Christian faith is of utmost importance to us. That said, most Bruderhof members are not religious in the sense of highly developed or frequently displayed personal piety. We are extremely ordinary, and tend to speak less about our faith than some other branches of Christianity.
To live in a Bruderhof community you have to want to follow Jesus. Whether you call that being a Christian is not so important – but you have to want to follow Jesus and live the way he showed people how to live. Read about the basis of our faith here.
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No. God is far greater than that. While we each believe that God has called us to live in this particular way, it’s certainly not the only way to follow Christ. Our calling is ultimately not to community but to Jesus, who calls all people to himself. He brought the good news of the kingdom of God, the nature of which is summed up in two great commandments: “Love the Lord your God with all your heart, and with all your soul, and with all your mind, and with all your strength,” and “Love your neighbor as yourself.” So if you find a better way to live out those commandments, tell us – we want to join with you!
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The word “radical” can mean different things to different people, but it comes from the word “radix” which means “root.” So we strive, in our searching, to again and again return to the roots of Jesus’ teachings and to the example of the first Christians in Jerusalem. Their way of life is what inspired the founding members of our community – and still inspires us today – to share everything in common, to strive for unity in all basic questions of faith, and to join hands not just for a limited period, but in a lifetime commitment to one another.
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We share an Anabaptist heritage with the Amish and Hutterites (also the Mennonites and Brethren), and we know that we look similar to them in dress. But while we certainly respect them, we’re not formally affiliated with either group.
Unlike the Amish, we live in full community of goods and are open to the use of technology, and unlike many Hutterites today, we believe strongly in the Great Commission (Mark 16:15) and in an open door to new members – as their founders in the 1500s did.
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The church community provides each of us with necessities such as food, clothing, and housing, so there’s no need for money on a day-to-day basis. But if someone needs money, for instance for a trip, they are given what they need (and return what they don’t use when they get home).
Because of this, no one who lives on a Bruderhof is paid for their work: no wages, paychecks, stipends, or allowances. No one has any private property at all. Some members who live in urban areas may hold a job, but all wages are donated to the church community.
Our businesses are sufficient to maintain our communities and provide for our modest daily needs. When we are blessed with more than we need, we use it for our own outreach projects or to support other charitable missions.
This way of living puts us all on the same footing. Nobody’s work brings either privilege or stigma: work in the community laundry is valued as highly as the work of an expert technician or doctor.
For a more detailed answer to this question, see Foundations of Our Faith and Calling.
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Yes.
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No. We try to provide healthy food for everyone, and raise much of our own meat and vegetables in a way that respects the life of the animals we eat and cares for our planet. A handful of members avoid meat, and appropriate food is provided for anyone with a medical diet restriction such as lactose or gluten intolerance.
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Our communities are served by medical professionals (doctors, physician assistants, nurses, physical therapists, and dentists) who are members. We use the services of local hospitals and specialists for acute or difficult medical problems.
If someone has a long-term disability or illness, we pull together to give them the care they need within the community. This might mean ground floor accommodation, a hospital bed, or round-the-clock nursing care. Often an elderly couple or single person will form a small family unit with one or two younger people who can provide not only medical care but companionship and support as well.
Caring for one another is a privilege, and the benefits flow both ways – young people who have lived in a household with older people will tell you about lessons in humor, persistence, and humility that they’ve picked up in the process.
As for end-of-life care, although it can of course be emotionally and physically demanding, accompanying a brother or sister in their final days is one of the most meaningful experiences in communal life. The community rallies around the dying person: children visit to deliver cheerful drawings or sing songs, brothers and sisters stop by to take leave, and often the whole church community gathers to stand outside the window of the dying person, to pray and sing songs of faith and encouragement.
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Daily. Of course every individual and age group has their own idea of what’s fun, but living together provides endless opportunities for good times, whether it’s an early morning of fishing or birding; a weekend afternoon of cycling, hiking, or playing soccer; or an evening campfire or board game.
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Church holidays – Easter, Christmas, Pentecost – are the high points of our year. In addition to religious observances, we celebrate with festive meals and gatherings, and as often as possible our children participate in these events.
We love to celebrate, and occasions from birthdays and weddings to Mother’s Day and Oktoberfest are good opportunities for barbecues, piñata bashes, and even the odd hootenanny.